On the Internet you can find many articles that tell you have to do so many things to get a man to commit. But how many of those articles are factual? Remember, men like to keep it simple. In order for a man to want to commit to you, he needs to feel that you will simplify his life, while adding to his happiness.
In other words, keep the drama to a minimum. Although some men may not be ready to make a full commitment to a woman within the first month or two months dating her, it does not mean they cannot fall in love and be excited to get married to the woman of their dreams.
Men have no clue how they truly feel about a woman in the long-term until they become brave enough to get to know a woman beyond her looks and the physical pleasures she can offer.
In other words, you have just as much of a shot to land your dream man than any other woman. To make yourself as attractive as possible to the man of your dreams, you need to give him the right impression about you from the start. Do not chase him.
Men want to know as they continue to give more of themselves to a woman that they can keep her happy in the long term. Until a man feels great about himself and what he can offer to a woman, he does not want her to have high expectations of him. He doesn’t want her to fall for him before he knows what he wants.
While he is trying to figure things out on his own, do not keep yourself restless about making him want you. Instead, you need to want yourself. By feeling good about yourself, a man will have no other option than to find you irresistible.
When you can make yourself happy, he will see committing to you is something that will make him happy as well.
Women end up losing the men they want to be in relationships because they are taught they need to give ultimatums to get what they want.
You do not need to ask a man ‘where is this going?’ or ‘are we exclusive?’ if he really wants to be with you. He will worry about someone else snatching you away if he does not do what is necessary to keep you loyal to him.
Do not try to influence his decision. By living your life, you will give him the opportunity to highly value you. It is all about knowing your self-worth and cherishing yourself as a woman.
You cannot control a man and a man cannot control you. Once you understand that, you will increase your desirability and land the man you want.
It is all about self control rather than trying to control the behaviors of a man.
Show off your great personality and confidence. He will love you for it.