You may not like what I am about to share.
I bow to the position of the North, the Earth, ArchAngel Uriel and those who have walked before us. In my tradition it is the place of spiritual discernment and going within.
As I said, you may not like what I am about to share. It’s just my perspective. I believe in speaking our truth but there is a pattern in our new consciousness movement that speaking your truth and self-love must be done at all costs. I don’t agree.
Sometimes family members, friends or your clients/students may start to overly focus on you. Especially when they are living an imbalanced life.
Maybe they are troubled by their overwork and no romantic life? Stuck in a relationship that doesn’t support them? Is their health worrisome, their career at risk or a loved one ill? Take a moment and when they barrage you with their truth and don’t allow you to share yours, ask,” What is this person, that I care about going through?
Perhaps the stressors of their path are overwhelming. Modern day stressors make June Cleever and keeping up with the Joneses watered down applesauce. With what seems as lack of jobs and intense competition in the marketplace, is your loved one struggling to stay in a job or even in the race? Remember it doesn’t have to be accurate, it’s what they may be feeling at this time.
Needing a villain or a point to vent and unleash may be a subconscious need. When you notice someone you love going through this, I feel it’s best to hold space, stay grounded and let them fire away. I said you might not agree.
Come from a place of groundedness and a deep knowing of who you are. Let them flail, vent, wail and screech for a bit. Yes, even if the venting fills the ears of others. Even when others come and share with you. If you love them and see within them brilliance, beauty, talent and love. Hold space for them. Eventually it will subside. This too shall pass…
Sometimes there’s a projection of a projection. People feel overwhelmed and guilty about whatever is going on and they spent much time imagining how you are projecting on them. Meanwhile you haven’t given it a second thought because you are really, truly living your life. While this person has been thinking about this for a long time, you may be too busy with tons of projects, hot love life or maybe planning to hike Kilimanjaro! The point is somehow you’ve become the focus point of their unleashing.
Stay calm and allow them to vent, attack and share. If you love them, let them unload and wait for the right time to share. When you spend a lifetime supporting and assisting people to own their priestess/shaman/intuitive/healer and leader it happens.
This is powerful stuff. Centuries of oppression and fear of visibility may make them temporarily see demons and shadows that indeed do not exist. In the end, it will be their choice to chose that reality or dance in the truth. If you hold your peaceful, loving ground…all will be well either way.
Especially when you may serve as a guide. Yes, it often makes you a possible target for subconscious fears, authority/rebellion issues and projections.
The fact is that I’ve trained hundreds of intuitives at this time and worked with thousands in Psychic readings, reiki and hypnosis, groups, courses, talks and one on one.
As I grew from neighborhood wise woman/urban priestess to a more global & expansive priestess this happened. Most of my students and clients from back in the day are still stay in touch, most are intuitives, teachers and healers themselves!
I am blessed to be connected to amazing people in the US and abroad, especially Panama. Several students, friends and clients gathered for a prayer & intention circle in NYC before my major surgery in 2012. Many text and call if they sense that something is off. Smile, you know who you are… Thank you
They were always priestesses/shamans/teachers/intuitves/healers and very powerful. Your guide, intuitive, coach or teacher does not BESTOW power. The power was always there. I played a reflecting mirror to what was already there! Honored. I am blessed to reflect such beauty, talent and love.
Yet there were some who were angered when I raised my rates and became less available for in person sessions or even time for tea. I was in a corporate job, a mastermind and booked nights and weekends. I was intensely preparing a solid foundation so I could soar into my own business full time.
Thankfully, I had great friends, family and the awesome women in Nisha Moodley’s Mastermind that year and Nisha as well as the powerful fierce ladies supported me in moving forward fearlessly.
Reaching international audiences in two languages is no easy feat and frankly, while I am dating someone and have a close-knit group of friends, I am working and/or studying most days of the week. Ain’t nobody got time to fret about this stuff! I am walking my talk everyday and If I am not, I am resting on Mother Earth on her gorgeous beaches and sand dunes.
Thankfully this projection is rare in my life. I stayed grounded. when I do, the love always comes back Holding that space with much love, kindness and a compassionate heart is key.
Even if you realized yesterday that you were a healer all your life but didn’t know it or have been one for decades, this type of stuff may happen to you so I wanted to share. We need more mutual support for the path of the healer/priestess/shaman/intuitive/leader so that we may deal with this with graceful power and boundless love when it happens.
So for all the lovers, guides, visionaries, healers and teachers out there…be patient. Hold the space. Don’t say anything you might regret, even if they do. It’s ok. It’s not a martyr position. It’s a power position because we are all One and in the end, ever-reflecting mirrors.
My heart is full. The truth always comes out. The Divine Spark within me bows to the Divine Spark within you!
Blessed be, Ashe, Aho & Amen! love, V #truth #vanessacodorniu #soulgifts #intuition #awakenpriestess