Men have the ability to please women simply by behaving in ways that women find attractive. By the actions they take! If you want a happy life, and a woman by your side, then continue doing the things that women love, such as:
1. Acting chivalrous. This is what most woman want, but can’t find in a man! Unfortunately, nowadays men think that women don’t desire a gentleman. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. Chivalry is not dead. It’s a live, and a smart man is one who can use it to his advantage. When a man acts in ways that please a woman, he can be rest assured that his life with her is going to be a good one. The truth is that deep down a woman expects her man to do the little things that all gentlemen do: open car doors, pull out her seat in the restaurant, talk to her softly, make love to her often, hold doors open for her, walk with her on the right side of the sidewalk (away from traffic and cars), and make sure she is warm, well-fed and comfortable! It’s not just that a woman expects it, it’s that a man greatly rises in her eyes when he does things that make her feel special. A man doesn’t have to be rich or famous or athletic or really anything but himself to make a woman feel special. If he acts in ways that make a woman feel loved, he will be way ahead of the game! It’s not about pretending to be a gentlemen or faking it just to get what you want, it’s about doing what your woman wants, what will please her and what makes her eventually think the world of you!
2. Texting, calling & communicating often. You don’t have to communicate with your girl 24/7, but you should check in at least once a day to let her know you’re thinking of her and that you miss her! It’s pretty basic. Women love communicating with each other and with their man. They want to hear your voice in the morning and at night. They want to know you’re thinking of them. They want a good night text and a good morning sweetie! It’s not hard to do. It takes a few minutes at most. Do it for your woman, today. Don’t cheapen out. Women want to know you care. How do you show it? You call, text and check in often with the woman you’re in love with. You don’t forget to call when you say you will, you make it a point to text your woman often to let her know you’re thinking of her. You do this even when you’re busy! You do it because you know it makes her happy, not because it comes second nature to you. You might be busy, not in the mood to chat or even just bored of communicating so much. Do it anyway. A woman needs this form of bonding (through communication) to feel you care about her. A woman wants to feel secure in your love and phone calls and emails and texts remind her that you’re there! And that you do care …
3. Saying I love you frequently and bringing small gifts. It’s the simplest action of them all. Say “I love you” often and mean it. A woman can tell the difference between a forced I love you and a genuine show of love! Make it mean that much more when you bring along something she loves. It could be roses, one kind of chocolate she absolutely loves, a pair of inexpensive sunglasses she would like, anything at all! It doesn’t have to be costly (especially if you don’t have the money), but it should show some thought.
4. Listening during fights. This is the hardest action of them all. It requires p-a-t-i-e-n-c-e and discipline! Most men (and some women) have a tendency to shut down during fights or to walk away. Do neither. Try hard to listen to your woman without talking back or defending yourself immediately. It’s hard, but you need to slow your reaction down by a lot to understand what she is really trying to say! Take the time to really hear what she’s trying to communicate. It’s often a plea for more love or attention! Often, a woman is coming from a place that is deeply hurt or angry, and she can’t control her emotions too well. Forgive her. Or at least try to. Most of the time she is fighting because she is feeling unloved, abandoned or ignored. When have you done this to her? Try to see how you might have hurt her through your words or actions. It might surprise you because to you it wasn’t meant that way at all. To you, it night have been something innocent, perhaps a thoughtless action or comment on your part. To her, it meant much, MUCH MORE. To you, it didn’t warrant such an emotional reaction. But that’s because men and women are opposite. I’m not asking you to be a saint, to sit there and get slammed, without saying anything back! But what I am saying it to take things slow and try to grab at the content of what your woman is saying, while ignoring (temporarily) the tone and exact words she is using to express herself. Try to understand what she is talking about! Sometimes it may seem nearly impossible, but if you detach yourself emotionally just for a second, and ignore her yelling and tone of voice, you can make out why she is upset. Do this today.
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